3.23.2013

Introducing... Jacob Matthew Shilling

Our precious son, Jacob Matthew, arrived early wed morning 3/20 of this week! He is 3 days old now and as perfect as can be! He came into the world with a very dramatic entrance - God delivered him into my own hands in the front seat of our car as Eric raced 80 mph to get us to the birthing center we were planning to deliver him at! We arrived just 3 min later into the parking lot and were checked right away for vitals and to help me deliver the placenta/ after birth stitching repair. Our poor car looked like a crime scene - hah! But it was a surreal, crazy adventure that God had His hands all throughout, keeping us all safe and protected! I was planning a natural birth like Sophia's so in my mind it just happened in an unexpected location! I think of it as having had angel midwives in the car with us! :) Sophia was a long labor 22+ hrs so I just did NOT expect a speedy 4 hr labor this time around!
He is a big boy - 9 lbs 2 oz, 20.5 inches long and so handsome. We are in love with him, it hardly seems possible to love someone so much! Big sister Sophia is transitioning, hard to share mom and dad but hanging in there as we try to adjust to new normal. "Baby Jakey" is laid back, loves to nurse, and has soft as velvet skin. His newborn squeaks and gurgles are so fun. His least favorite activity is diaper changes and having clothes changed. He rides very happily in the car (was on a mission to come into the world that first car ride!) 
We are over the moon!




More pics of his day of birth coming... need to upload from camera. :) 

2.27.2013

More Birthday!

We enjoyed having a little get together with Josh, Meg, Molly, Annie, and Owen as well as Sophia's birthday buddy Zach, Katie & Josh M, and baby Andrew. Sophia got to blow out more candles and I think the highlight of the afternoon for her was being sung to by everyone. Ironically having everyone over was a break for me, since she is on cloud nine having her older cousins adore her and play with her. Annie dressed Sophia up with all her necklaces, earrings, tiara, and extra hair bows. :) And I overheard Sophia calling out "Moo-Moo!" every time Molly tried to leave Sophia's room :) Since Meg has been letting Sophia hang out with her and Owen while I go to my midwife appts (which has been SO NICE for me!), she and Owen have really bonded! Sophia goes through the list of Moo-Moo, Annie, Owen, Uncle Josh ("Osh"), and Aunt Meg ("Meng") and is so excited to see them any and every chance we have. She loves being surrounded by them and we were so blessed by wonderful family and friends to celebrate our girl with us. 

  We went with a "Valentine" hearts theme party. :) Perfect fit for our February-born sweetie.

Kiddos playing in Sophia's room - they were in there playing so well for quite a long time and it gave us parents a little break to hang out and catch up with each other!


 Annie helping Sophia color in her new Hello Kitty coloring book with her new backpack on. She is a BIG fan of Hello Kitty these days!
 (Sophia was much too busy sticking her finger in the icing to be bothered to look at the camera) :)

Happy Birthday to our big girl Sophia!

Sophia Grace "CiCi" is TWO!

Sophia's outfit pretty much picked out by herself. I figured it was her birthday so she could wear whatever she wanted. :) She is starting to be interested in wearing bows and that has been fun :)


Sophia had a wonderful birthday week and we enjoyed spending the weekend celebrating her special day as a family! Heart pancakes with strawberries, lots of candles to blow out, special dessert that night, and having some dear friends over for brunch one day all contributed to a very fun weekend!

Boy oh boy - what a full month it has been!

February has been wonderful and busy.... let's start with that our sweet girl turned TWO!


She is such a big girl and loves to talk about becoming a big sister soon! Her favorite books these days are "All By Myself" (her approach to doing everything these days) and "I'm a Big Sister!" (also appropriate for big change coming soon!) Since turning 2 a few weeks ago, she already has being a two year old down pat.... from tears and tantrums when Mom/Dad say 'no' to chocolate for dinner to growing in her independence - sitting on the potty (nothing coming out yet but she loves to practice!), climbing up and down from her changing table (which is soon to be moved out for little bro to use), helping Mom unload the dishwasher, set the table with silverware & napkins, cleaning up the cat's messes....she is my little HELPER in every way! So blessed for her cheerful, "oh sure!" when asked to help in some way. She puts her breakfast dishes (that aren't glass) in the sink, throws her diapers in the bathroom or trash depending on cloth or overnight disposable (I have to be careful she doesn't get these mixed up - I have found more than one cloth diaper in the trash!), can start the washer/dryer on her own (whether I am ready for her to or not) :) and so many other things. Sophia continues to listen so well and we spend very little time in time out for the normal behavioral development stuff. The tears are most likely when it is time for nap, bed, or food... which is normal for us parents too. :) Sophia is a sensitive soul, she worries if someone else gets hurt and is quite emotional herself. She is loving, sweet, and cautious. She is like her Mama in that it takes a bit to come out of her shell and is shy around those she doesn't know well. She loves to be part of older kid's play and will gladly follow them around (if it isn't too rowdy or loud). :) She is in heaven any time she is around her cousins in Jamestown and whether it is Monday lunch at school with the girls, lunch after church with the whole gang, or play time with O and Aunt Meg while I am at my dr appts, she beams with excitement.
She has firmly nicknamed herself "CiCi" whether it was out of not being able to pronounce Sophia we don't know, but it has caught on and she is CiCi most of the time. Never in a million years did that name run through our minds as we named her Sophia but we love it.



Though we are still praying for some dairy sensitivities to resolve as she ages, we have seen some improvement with recent exposure in the form of hard cheese (Parmesan), butter, and crackers w cheese flavor (goldfish, etc). She continues to love her veggies, meat not so much (esp. chicken) and would pick broccoli or blueberries over chicken nuggets any day of the week. She loves beans, peas, broccoli, oatmeal (her breakfast every day w cinnamon & honey), blueberries, strawberries, bananas, PICKLES, jelly (tolerates the peanut or almond butter I combine it with on sandwiches), eggs, noodles, rice, soy yogurt and drinks water like its her job. She would gladly take juice but it is offered very rarely and if then, watered down significantly. Sometimes I have to wait to give her water in her cup during dinner because she will just down it and I'm always afraid there won't be room left for the food! And its not like she doesn't drink throughout the day! At least I never need worry about dehydration. She does not care for any form of liquid milk, whether cow (which is good b/c she can't have it), almond, soy, hemp, coconut, etc. She does drink almond milk in smoothies. She loves tacos and that is about the only time she will eat meat by the spoonful - I buy organic, local grass fed beef from our farmer's market and make my own taco seasoning so I do not limit how much of that she eats! She hates coconut in every form, truly Eric's child. I can never get enough coconut in my life. She has discovered chocolate (held her out quite a long time!) and loves having two chocolate chips as a treat or dessert. Since she has such a limited intake of sugar, a little goes a long way, which is kind of nice. When I told her to say "Cheese!" the first face is what I got. :)

Sophia's favorite game right now is hide and seek. She loves to be the one to hide and will run off squealing as you cover your eyes to count to 10. The cutest part is that as we go to find her and say, "Where's CiCi? Where's Sophia? Is she under the bed? Is she in the dresser?" She will respond with her little voice saying, "no" or "nuh huh" to our incorrect guesses. It is so funny and we love it. Often the FIRST thing she says to Eric as he walks in the door from work, "MORE HIDE?!" :)
She has been in a great sleeping groove of which we do NOT take for granted! We added a pillow & blanket before Christmas and it has been amazing. Her bedtime is 7-7:15 pm and she sleeps soundly until anywhere from 5:30-7 am at which point we let her come cuddle with us in the bed. :) Today she woke up at 7 am having gone to bed at 7:15 pm last night and when we pulled up the monitor to see what she was doing, she was jumping in the bed, waiting to be gotten out. She naps in the afternoon usually 12:30 - 3 pm give or take a bit.
We listen to music in the car, a kids worship cd and she has many of the 20 songs memorized. Not only that, but will request certain songs and can tell us based on the first 5 notes whether it is indeed the song she requested (if we forget which number it is and try to find it for her). Her love for music and ear for it is so fun. She knows and loves quite a repertoire, everything from God is so good to ABC's to Itsy-Bitsy Spider to Trust & Obey. The more actions that go with them, the better. :)

She is spunky, sensitive, and such a helper. We continue to be amazed how our love grows!

1.31.2013

Grandma Bev

It's hard to believe it has been two weeks since my sweet Grandma Bev went to heaven to be with the Lord. I will remember her for many things, but what sticks out the most was her love for cooking, sharing time with family, and generous heart for buying special gifts for her grandchildren & great-grandchildren. She made each of our kids (even baby boy who hasn't come yet!) special fleece blankets that I will treasure always and so many cute outfits that will go in their keepsake box to save for their own children one day. I wish we had been able to visit MN more often, but am so thankful Sophia got to meet Grandma Bev this past summer - she bonded with Grandma & Grandpa so quickly! She loved being at their house, eating a BIG spaghetti & meatball dinner (Grandma's specialty!) and playing with her dolly that Grandma picked out for her.

Sophia and I spent last week up in MN for the funeral and to be with family. It was a hard week for many reasons, but God sustained us physically & emotionally and I will always be thankful we could be there for it. I didn't bring my camera on the trip so pictures/videos of our time can be found on Katie's blog - www.borninseattle2.blogspot.com.




We love you and will miss you, Grandma! It brings me joy to picture you dancing at the feet of Jesus! I will think of you each and every time I make your minestrone soup, cranberry sauce, spaghetti & meatballs, and many other recipes you shared with me! May Sophia develop a love for cooking too as well as Grandma's legacy of sharing good food around the table together!

1.07.2013

Putting up Christmas Lights






Sophia enjoyed putting the lights up outside with Eric - and she REALLY liked the colored lights! We put some up in her room which was a big hit! She continues to be our little helper!! :)

Christmas Season!

*warning - long post!*

We had such a fun December this year - Christmas is my favorite time of year and Sophia really got into every aspect of it! Everything from decorations, to celebrating Advent, to opening presents, and Christmas carols - she loved it all and made it more fun than ever. Such a special season to cherish the family we have become over these 7 1/2 years! We loved celebrating with Eric's parents this year too; Sophia enjoyed bonding with them both and we look forward to more time with Mimi & Pops on a regular basis next year. Eric's Grandpa & his wife, DeDe, came all the way from California to be with us on Christmas Day for which we were so thankful. 


 Opening Advent treat & reading our daily Scripture together as a family




 Christmas Eve

 Christmas morning! Sophia enjoying her normal wake up routine - eating oatmeal for breakfast, not yet aware of was waiting for her under the tree in the living room!

 Look at that cute smirk as she immediately spots the grocery cart from Pops & Mimi!




 Watching a video on Pops' IPad - doesn't she look so grown up here?! Like she is catching up on her email...
 Christmas dinner - turkey, sweet potatoes, and many more wonderful sides!

Loving her new apron hand made by Aunt Katie! So cute!
 Eric finally getting to play his favorite game - Acquire!
Sophia cutting up some fruits & veggies with her new Melissa & Doug set from Popeye & Nana! She has played with it every day since receiving it!

We are so blessed! Most of all by the gift of our Savior and the celebration of His birth into the world. What a special time of year.